When guys try to act cool in front of girls, it's painfully obvious and almost always goes awry.

Chris Pratt. Used to think he was cool, funny, charming as hell, and just overall a solid dude to look up to... Then I found out about his ultranationalist church that he donates obscene amounts of money to. Insanely transphobic. Trash human.

Sean Connery - he was a proud wife-beater. Jack Nicholson - beat up an escort and left her disabled. Woody Allen, until I heard about little Dylan. Elon Musk.....oh wait. I NEVER liked Elon Musk.

Bill Murray. Nobody believes me, and I'm not joking, he is my estranged ex-uncle in law. His two oldest kids are my cousins on my dad's side.

He destroyed those kids lives. Thankfully as adults they're amazing. But holy s**t just seeing what happened to them and then the limited family interactions told me everything I needed to know.

In his elder years he's trying to make up for lost time but it's kind of too little too late. There's a reason he hangs out with strangers... People who know him too long...