Hello Pandas, help me out please, it's typical high school nonsense. There's this guy I have been having a crush on for the past two months. It's not my first time having a crush, I've had several and lost interest after a week or two. This time it's different. Now my problem is how to lose interest because that guy obviously doesn't feel the same and it's getting weird for me.
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This won't help you but to answer the question.
My crush tried to run me over in his car kind of killed it stone dead for me.
What I did when I was in school. I wrote my crush a letter and he talked to me after the period was over and told me in the nicest way possible that he's not interested in me. I said om and we stay friends ate that but I lost touch
Avoid him as much as possible, and do lots of studying/sports/hanging out with your friends.
I met my crush 20 years later, and wondered why id been so enamoured.
I had a few in High School. One I still sporadically think about whenever the subject of crushes comes up.
I crushed on her HARD, for about 2 years! She had a boyfriend most of that time, but near the end they broke up. I asked her out, she said no, nothing changed. I still fancied her, but knew where I stood.
The thing is, unless you ask, you don't truly know how someone feels. A girl I dated in secondary school later told me that she'd had a crush on me for a while before she eventually asked me out. She thought I wouldn't be interested, so never bothered. Then one day, when I complimented her t-shirt and she decided to... just ask.
Repeat the facts to yourself. This is what I used to do. I would remind myself that it wasn't realistic to want someone who didn't have what I wanted in life (the top one being someone who wants me back!).
Get out your feelings through creative expression. Make a playlist, listen to it, draw or write poems while listening to that playlist, make a journal entry. Creative expression definitely helped my mind process some things and while it didn’t fix it immediately, it helped a lot. Hope this helps!
Repeat the facts to yourself. This is what I used to do. I would remind myself that it wasn't realistic to want someone who didn't have what I wanted in life (the top one being someone who wants me back!).
Get out your feelings through creative expression. Make a playlist, listen to it, draw or write poems while listening to that playlist, make a journal entry. Creative expression definitely helped my mind process some things and while it didn’t fix it immediately, it helped a lot. Hope this helps!
