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No matter where you fall on the spectrum of parenting styles or what your specific beliefs are regarding child-rearing, as a parent, there are some things you should say and do to your kids. Sharing words of appreciation and showering them with genuine love can do a lot to help your child grow up feeling loved, secure, and happy.
Let’s flip the coin, and we have a wide range of things you should NEVER say to children. Well, unless your goal is to create the most toxic environment possible.
This is our piece of parenting advice for you today: a kid’s brain is like a sponge, ready to absorb everything you say, especially considering that as their parent, they look up to you. Certain words and the intentions behind them can be incredibly hurtful and damaging and leave a lasting invisible scar. Believe it or not, some everyday phrases may do more harm than good and only serve to drive a wedge between you and your child.
When it comes to parenting, nothing is ever a guarantee — and that includes you always getting it right — but there’s always a way to better parenting. Let’s start with the things parents should never say, and you’ll already be doing a lot to break the cycle of toxic parenting, allowing your house to be a safer place for your little ones. You’ll find that some of these submissions are blatantly destructive, while others are indeed said with good intentions but still carry a hint of venom in certain circumstances.
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LilliVB 3 years ago
Some of those are legitimately awful thing to say to a kid. Others just needs more context. Like "I don't know who ate your candy" for example. What if I really don't know who did it. Am I supposed to lie? It's wrong just if it is you that ate that candy and you are lying about it. Or "there nothing to be afraid of". You shouldn't be dismissive of your child feeling, but it can be said in a supportive way among other things if you are trying to encourage your child to try something new. Some of those without context doesn't mean anything imo
Shay Tracy 3 years ago
"oh honey! It's okay that you're terrible at math! Just marry a smart man!" I was 9 and dyslexic. Cool cool cool
Aroace tiger (she/they/he) 3 years ago
Oh.. a couple of these are my parents. Especially my mum
LilliVB 3 years ago
Some of those are legitimately awful thing to say to a kid. Others just needs more context. Like "I don't know who ate your candy" for example. What if I really don't know who did it. Am I supposed to lie? It's wrong just if it is you that ate that candy and you are lying about it. Or "there nothing to be afraid of". You shouldn't be dismissive of your child feeling, but it can be said in a supportive way among other things if you are trying to encourage your child to try something new. Some of those without context doesn't mean anything imo
Shay Tracy 3 years ago
"oh honey! It's okay that you're terrible at math! Just marry a smart man!" I was 9 and dyslexic. Cool cool cool
Aroace tiger (she/they/he) 3 years ago
Oh.. a couple of these are my parents. Especially my mum
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