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Frieder Paulus, a psychologist at the Lübeck University in Germany, told Quartz that embarrassment is social: it tells us when we have violated a social norm and makes us feel bad for doing so. But it's not clear why exactly we have the capacity to cringe or as scientists call it, feel vicarious embarrassment.

We feel others' embarrassment because we are empathetic—we imagine how someone else thinks and feels because it determines how we treat others and cooperate with one another. Feeling second-hand embarrassment might be just a byproduct of a more important trait, much like how the belly button is a symbol of the umbilical cord.

Exploring the depths of secondhand embarrassment can be both uncomfortable and revealing. As observed within digital communities like the Cringetopia subreddit, people share and collect moments that vividly capture this feeling.

For a deeper understanding of why this phenomenon occurs, you can delve into insights explaining the role of vicarious embarrassment and empathy in social interactions.