The members of LGBTQ+ have to deal with a lot of hate. Whether it's in real life or online, as a group, they're constantly under attack by spiteful people who question their very own existence. So in an attempt to create a safe space for venting, they started a subreddit called "Are the Straights OK?"
Even though the sub is relatively new — its birthday is October 2019 — it already has 329K subscribers, tackling difficult social issues like sexism and homophobia. Here are some of the most-upvoted posts from "Are the Straights OK?"
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This Made Me Go Like
Breeding Culture Is Creepy As Hell
Bored Panda contacted the moderators of r/AreTheStraightsOK and one of them was kind enough to answer a few questions about the subreddit and what goes on in it. "The most popular theme across this subreddit is the lack of self-awareness when it comes to certain couples and their toxic relationships," the mod said.
"It's like that one guy at work who comes in every day complaining about his wife and you constantly ask yourself 'Why are they even still married?!'"
The mod thinks the community of the subreddit is really great. "We have a bunch of genuine users who share a lot of personal moments as well as laughs and friendly jokes. We do get trolls, and they sometimes are subtle, but for the most part, we really like the community that posts here," they explained.
Props To The Kid Who Filled It Out
Is It Gay To Love Your Son?
Some critics of this subreddit can be heard saying it is simply putting labels on people and pitting them against each other which only widens the gap between the LGBTQ+ and straight cisgender folks but the mod of r/AreTheStraightsOK believes they misunderstand what this subreddit is actually about.
"First and foremost, it was created by a straight cis woman, and second, it includes straight people (both cis and trans) within the mod team and the community. Critics seem to be missing the information that's provided right in the sidebar on how this subreddit is not aimed at straight people in particular — it's aimed at bad relationships and sometimes sexist/LGBT+phobic people. Now, if critics fell into one of those areas themselves, I could at least understand why they think it's widening some sort of 'gap.'"
I Am Yet To Invade Poland
Can They Stop Hating Each Other For Like.. 10 Minutes?
Fellas...is It Gay To Be Able To See?
The Great American Sitcom
A Man's Razor Will Cut A Woman's Skin Clean Off
Better To Be Silent And Assumed A Fool Than To Speak Up And Remove All Doubt
This...
This Tho
That Ratio Tho
Jar Go Brrrr
Uhh..
Miss My Masculine Ass With That Feminine Hygiene Sh*t
Lol
Logic
Did You Guys Hear The Big News!?
Guess Dude Never Wanted A 90s Jdm Sports Car
Accurate Representation
Both The Gays And Geometry Start With G.
Corona Straights Are Not Ok
Are The Straights Ok?
Hmm
Thats The Whole Point
What
Found On Technically The Truth, The One Bothered By The First Cartoon...
I Just Saw It And Liked The Response
Yeah, My Homophobic Uncle Watches This 24/7 And I'm Sitting There Like "¿¿¿???"
Like Come On, Show Some Creativity
How The Turn-Tables
Hypocrisy
Proper Grammar? In My House!??!? I Don't Think So
A Gay Friend Shared This On Facebook
Yeah
Showers Are Gay
Is It Gay To Not Have Skin Cancer ?
Posting This Again Cos I'm A Dummy And Forgot To Cover Names
This Comic By Kasia Babis Is This Sub
They Don't Know
Wild
Hell Naw To The Naw Naw Naw Naw
The Biggest Hetero Lie
Hating Their Wives Before They Even Get Married
Men Can Wear Make Up, But *only* If Extreme Conflict Ensues...
Wow
Omg A Man???
This Is Some 19th Century Sexism
I Don’t Know If This Has Been Posted Here But....
It Just Blows My Mind How Literally No One Questioned This Or Thought It Was Weird
This Guy Isn't
If This Was Already Uploaded My Bad
At Least Learn How Hard It Is Before You Make One Off Statements
The Gender Hands Tm
Seriously Help Yourself Before Committing To A Relationship
Apparently, Love Is Gay...
Fellas Is It Gay To Sit Comfortably?
W H A T
Bloody Hell...
Is It Gay To Have Have An Astrology Sign ?
No Kink, Unless Straight Kink
Am Straight, Can Confirm That We Are Not Ok
I’m Not Really A Jojo Siwa Fan, But This Was Funny
Now We’re Even
Fellas Is It Gay To Like Clouds
Is It Gay To Put Effort Into Your Appearance?
Entitled Much?
Dear Fellow Inked Ladies, We Are Mentally Corrupted And Emasculating
This One Isn't
Half of these are just sexist comments (which are terrible but not necessarily LGBTphobic) or gross generalisations about straight people. Bigotry needs to be fought but generalising all straights are sexist homophobes is contra producent. Also fails to acknowledge the extended biphobia in the gay world (I can’t tell my best friend that I am bi despite him being gay ).
Yes! Biphobia is a thing, and it get completely ignored. So many people just don't get that there are unique issues when it comes to discrimination against bisexual people. I'm sorry you cant talk to your friend, Burs. Maybe if you told them their reaction would be different than you are expecting? And, if not, is that really the kind of friendship you want to hang on to? I realize that's over simplifying things but, maybe something to consider. I hope things work out for you.
Load More Replies...I wish everyone could just love who they wanna love and be who they wanna be. I do like the LGBTQ content tho BP. :)
Half of these are just sexist comments (which are terrible but not necessarily LGBTphobic) or gross generalisations about straight people. Bigotry needs to be fought but generalising all straights are sexist homophobes is contra producent. Also fails to acknowledge the extended biphobia in the gay world (I can’t tell my best friend that I am bi despite him being gay ).
Yes! Biphobia is a thing, and it get completely ignored. So many people just don't get that there are unique issues when it comes to discrimination against bisexual people. I'm sorry you cant talk to your friend, Burs. Maybe if you told them their reaction would be different than you are expecting? And, if not, is that really the kind of friendship you want to hang on to? I realize that's over simplifying things but, maybe something to consider. I hope things work out for you.
Load More Replies...I wish everyone could just love who they wanna love and be who they wanna be. I do like the LGBTQ content tho BP. :)
