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“A big deal or am I overthinking?” Not every red flag is obvious. Sometimes it can be something small that you don’t really notice until later. That’s why it is tricky to figure them out. 

In this poll, you will go through 25 situations that might be red flags. Or maybe they’re totally fine. Depends on you, really.

So what’s a dealbreaker and what’s just a weird oddity? Let’s find out! 🚩

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#1

They don’t say sorry - they just act like nothing ever happened

Note with sorry not sorry message on wooden tray next to a white envelope, concept for red flag poll.

Cup of Couple Report

Final score:
7points
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    #2

    They always cancel last minute, but still expect you to be available

    Wall clock showing almost 11 o'clock casting a shadow, representing the concept of a red flag poll.

    Bob Clark Report

    Final score:
    6points
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    #3

    They never want to meet your friends

    A group of people sitting indoors having a discussion during a relaxed Red Flag Poll meeting.

    Ron Lach Report

    Final score:
    4points
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    #4

    They go through your phone “just to check”

    Man in white shirt sitting by window, focused on phone screen, representing red flag poll concept.

    Andrea Piacquadio Report

    Final score:
    4points
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    #5

    They say all their exes were “crazy”

    Surreal portrait with three overlapping faces and red glitter tears, evoking a haunting and eerie red flag poll theme.

    Elīna Arāja Report

    Final score:
    4points
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    #6

    They say you’re “too sensitive” every time you bring up how you feel

    Woman looking down with concern while another person offers comfort in a casual setting, related to Red Flag Poll.

    Liza Summer Report

    Final score:
    3points
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    #7

    They constantly joke about your insecurities, but say you're “too serious”

    Two people discussing paperwork on a yellow couch in a casual setting during a Red Flag Poll session.

    Sarah Chai Report

    Final score:
    3points
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    #8

    You’ve never met a single one of their friends, because they don’t really have any

    Four young men sitting on a hillside overlooking a valley, engaged in conversation during a red flag poll discussion.

    Matheus Ferrero Report

    Final score:
    3points
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    #9

    They say, “I’m just not a big texter”, and you barely hear from them between hangouts

    Hand holding smartphone in dark, displaying a messaging app screen related to a red flag poll conversation.

    RDNE Stock project Report

    Final score:
    3points
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    #10

    They low-key make fun of your taste in music, shows, or food

    Young woman with eyes closed wearing headphones outdoors enjoying music in a red flag poll context

    Tirachard Kumtanom Report

    Final score:
    3points
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    #11

    They ask you for advice and then do the exact opposite

    The word advice written in white chalk on a blackboard with a red flag poll concept background

    Anna Tarazevich Report

    Final score:
    3points
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    #12

    They joke about breaking up anytime there's a disagreement

    Torn red paper heart on dark surface symbolizing emotional red flag poll concerns and warnings.

    Marta Nogueira Report

    Final score:
    3points
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    #13

    They’ve never been in a serious, long-term relationship

    Elderly couple smiling and embracing in a bright living room near large windows, representing connection in Red Flag Poll.

    SHVETS production Report

    Final score:
    3points
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    #14

    They say they’re “not close with their family” and never really explain why

    A diverse family group outdoors smiling and posing together for a red flag poll photo in a natural setting.

    Craig Adderley Report

    Final score:
    3points
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    #15

    They avoid talking about the future

    Happy couple embracing indoors with woman holding keys, symbolizing trust and a red flag poll concept.

    Kindel Media Report

    Final score:
    3points
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    #16

    They always play the victim, even when they’re clearly in the wrong

    Couple sitting apart on a couch with tense expressions, illustrating relationship issues in a red flag poll context.

    Ketut Subiyanto Report

    Final score:
    2points
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    #17

    They hide behind sarcasm even in serious conversations

    Scrabble tiles spelling sarcasm on a corkboard surface as a red flag poll concept image.

    Alexas_Fotos Report

    Final score:
    2points
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    #18

    They make big promises fast, but don’t always follow through

    Two hands linked by pinky fingers wearing colorful bracelets, representing connection in a red flag poll context.

    Pixabay Report

    Final score:
    2points
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    #19

    They act differently around their friends than they do with you

    Two men smiling and greeting each other outdoors with friends nearby, representing a social red flag poll moment.

    Kampus Production Report

    Final score:
    2points
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    #20

    They insist that you need to share passwords “if you really trust them”

    Finger entering passcode on a tablet screen with a red flag poll concept implied by security access.

    indra projects Report

    Final score:
    2points
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    #21

    They say, “that’s just how I am”

    Young woman with eyes closed receiving multiple hands on her shoulders symbolizing a red flag poll concept.

    Photo By: Kaboompics.com Report

    Final score:
    1point
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    #22

    They think having separate hobbies or interests is “drifting apart”

    Young woman at a table painting a canvas, focused on her art project in a cozy indoor setting with soft lighting for Red Flag Poll.

    Andrea Piacquadio Report

    Final score:
    1point
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    #23

    They always want you to change something about yourself - your clothes, your hair, your vibe

    Woman holding notebook and discussing concerns with a man in a room, illustrating a red flag poll scenario.

    Ketut Subiyanto Report

    Final score:
    1point
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    #24

    They expect you to read their mind instead of just telling you how they feel

    Outline of a head with multiple white arrows pointing outward in various twisted directions on a green background for Red Flag Poll.

    Tara Winstead Report

    Final score:
    1point
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    #25

    They’re super into conspiracy theories and think you should be too

    Stone carving of an eye inside a triangle with radiating lines, symbolizing a red flag poll concept.

    knollzw Report

    Final score:
    1point
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