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Social anxiety is like a tiny gnome in the back of your head; it might be sleeping, it might be as active as never, or… it might be forcing you to go over the way you said “here” that one time during attendance. One thing is clear, though—people without one will never know what it feels like to have it affect every single social situation you’re in.

The r/socialanxiety subreddit is a safe space for those feeling distressed in a social environment. People here share memes that other members might find a been-there-done-that kind of situation.

Bored Panda has created a list of relatable social anxiety-induced moments. Whether it’s thinking of better arguments for that conversation earlier or finding the perfect eye-contact-to-floor ratio, some people might feel more at ease knowing they’re not alone.

#1

I Genuinely Love This Subreddit

Text highlighting social anxiety with an example of a kind Reddit response to a Subway ordering question.

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Also known as social phobia, social anxiety disorder (SAD) is the persistent and excessive fear of being around people or in specific collective situations. It differs from person to person but there are some common traits. They might include worrying about meeting new people and starting conversations, tending to avoid social gatherings and eye contact, overthinking about judgment from others.

It might sound like everyone feels that way every once in a while. However, for those with social anxiety, these negative feelings are constant and way stronger. In some cases, they can lead to high levels of stress or even panic attacks.

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    #2

    This Is How You Dismantle An Ego

    Two tweets humorously discussing social anxiety and the misconceptions about introverts and extroverts.

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    #3

    Thank You!!!

    Social anxiety meme about feeling heard in a group when one person listens and replies, offering comfort and validation.

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    SAD is part of the group of generalized anxiety disorders (GAD), which is actually the most prevalent mental illness in the United States. The National Alliance on Mental Illness states that around 18% of people in the US live with some sort of an anxiety disorder.

    According to the Recovery Village, 264 million people worldwide suffer from it. Their data shows that younger people are more affected by it than the older generation. Just over 22% of people aged from 18 to 44 suffer from these conditions while for people 45–59 years of age, the number drops to 20.6%. Out of people over 60, only 9% deal with anxiety disorders.

    #4

    This Is Too Real

    Meme about social anxiety showing text on the fear of throwing away an apple core in a public setting.

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    #5

    I Hate When This Happens

    Text meme about social anxiety, depicting a student's humorous response in class, highlighting shared feelings.

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    Despite rather large numbers of people living with GAD, not a lot of them tend to look for professional help. The Anxiety & Depression Association of America (ADAA) states that less than 37% of people with generalized anxiety disorder receive treatment, even though it is believed to be very effective. ADAA also revealed that 36% of people suffering from social anxiety waited for 10 or more years before seeking help.

    #6

    Here’s Some Abuse

    Person lounging with headphones; text describes hobbies related to social anxiety.

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    #7

    I’ve Never Related To Anything More

    Tweet about social anxiety, describing childhood experience of reading aloud by counting classmates to ease stress.

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    #8

    It's Like I Forget I Have Sa For A Second

    Text posts highlighting loopholes in social anxiety, discussing sudden confidence and helping friends despite personal discomfort.

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    As with other anxiety disorders, SAD can develop due to numerous reasons. Some of the main factors include inherited traits, brain structure, and the person’s surroundings.

    It is believed that certain mental illnesses or disorders can run in the family, making it one of the possible causes behind developing social anxiety as well. It might also be related to our environment, as family or close people usually have an impact on our surroundings from an early age. Therefore, if a member suffers from certain disorders, their behavior might end up reflecting in ours.

    #9

    People Like This Deserve A Special Place In Heaven

    Text image about social anxiety, questioning if others pretend not to notice things to avoid embarrassment.

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    #10

    Never Were Truer Words Spoken

    Social anxiety meme on a felt board highlighting the preference for going home over social situations.

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    #11

    I Know This Feeling Too Well

    Meme about social anxiety humorously highlighting self-doubt in friendships by French Benefits, C’est Moi.

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    The founder of Washington Center for Cognitive Therapy, Vincent Greenwood, Ph.D., has expanded on social anxiety in a video online. He stated that there are three subtypes of social anxiety, based on its main triggers. The first—and the most common—one is general fear of social interactions. This might affect the day-to-day acts as simple as engaging in small talk, entering a room filled with strangers, participating in group activities.

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    #12

    Too Sensitive?

    Cat experiencing social anxiety, cuddling a teddy bear in bed late at night.

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    #13

    This

    Meme highlighting social anxiety with a humorous message about a bad day being exaggerated.

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    #14

    Aye

    Text meme joking about social anxiety and phone call anxiety, suggesting to toss the phone in a lake to avoid calls.

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    The second type of social anxiety according to Dr. Greenwood reveals itself when performing. Whether it’s sports activities, art performances, or giving presentations, some people might have difficulties dealing with the additional stress of being the center of attention.

    #15

    Always

    Comic strip about social anxiety showing reluctance to make a phone call, preferring emails and texts instead.

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    #16

    Here We Go Again

    Social anxiety meme: conversation with anxiety about being worried without a specific reason.

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    #17

    Show Me A Better Duo, I’ll Wait!

    Two people on a beach, text highlights social anxiety and depression in a humorous way.

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    In his video, Dr. Greenwood names the phenomenon known as observational fears as the third type of social anxiety. It is based on the angst of being judged or feeling embarrassment. People affected by this type might feel anxious while doing things when others are watching, whether it’s signing a document or cooking dinner.

    #18

    "Social Anxiety"

    Man with social anxiety sitting on a couch, dreading an upcoming event he reluctantly agreed to attend.

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    #19

    Comparison meme about social anxiety: straight vs. tangled railroad tracks.

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    #20

    My Life

    Comic strip depicting social anxiety with a character contemplating vulnerability, then retracting into a box.

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    People with social anxiety share some common behavioral disturbances that can appear in both emotional and physical forms. The emotional ones comprise excessive worrying about others judging them, intense and persistent fear of communicating with people, anticipating certain social situations expecting the worst, among others. Some physical ones include but are not limited to heart palpitations, profuse sweating, blushing, trembling.

    #21

    This Is Terrific!!!

    Text list titled "Things people with Social Anxiety do," detailing behaviors like avoiding events and feeling uncomfortable.

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    #22

    Teachers : *surprised Pikachu*

    Meme illustrating social anxiety, featuring a pill bottle labeled "Hard to swallow pills" with message about shy children.

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    #23

    I Saw This Earlier And It Couldn't Be More True

    A character with a neutral expression, capturing social anxiety humor about being aware of awkwardness but unable to avoid it.

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    Luckily, there are ways to cure or minimize the impact of SAD. First and foremost, if certain symptoms feel like it could be social anxiety, it is important to seek help from professionals. They can help diagnose it and appoint the appropriate treatment, whether it’s medication or alternative types of medical care. In addition to that, methods of occupational therapy or other practices, such as yoga or meditation, can be helpful as well.

    #24

    Aye, Contact Sucks

    Vintage portrait with text about social anxiety and eye contact, highlighting struggles faced by certain minds.

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    #25

    Lol

    Text meme about social anxiety humorously comparing words and compliments to physical discomfort.

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    #26

    I Have Stitched No Truer Words 🖤

    Silver frame with cross-stitch message about social anxiety, surrounded by colorful flowers, beside a potted plant.

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    Another solution that might help some people deal with social anxiety is connecting with people in a similar situation. The negative feelings caused by the disorder might make one feel lonesome, but there are people suffering from anxieties, getting in touch with whom might alleviate the load of it all.

    #27

    I’ll Be Attending My First Protest Saturday

    Person holding a sign about introverts at a protest, highlighting social anxiety.

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    #28

    So Accurate

    Comic comparing reality vs. social anxiety in scenarios like answering the phone and going to a party.

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    #29

    Every Time

    Person standing on a beach, contemplating with text about social anxiety over attending.

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    Social anxiety is a serious topic, but people in certain online communities manage to find ways to present their lives with the disorder in a rather lighthearted way. Quite a few great examples can be found on this list. Whether it’s an outlet for the emotions caused by SAD or a way to connect with people going through a similar thing, some of these will definitely find a person or two who can relate.

    #30

    A Little Hyperbole To Remind You You're Not Alone

    "Social anxiety meme about overthinking a past awkward moment, relatable to those with anxiety."

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    #31

    "Don't Dwell On Things" They Tell Me... Meanwhile

    Man recreating an argument with better points; social anxiety meme highlighting overthinking tendencies.

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    #32

    Either Too Shy Or Annoying

    Man pointing at his mirror reflection, with text about social anxiety humor.

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    #33

    ... :/

    A man with sweat on his face and mathematical diagrams, illustrating social anxiety in a humorous way.

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    #34

    Oh... I

    Tweet listing common social anxiety traits in a humorous "starter pack" style.

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    #35

    Now Time To Hibernate

    Monk in orange robe standing on green hills with a text about social anxiety after socializing, illustrating social anxiety.

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    #36

    Getting A Call From A Unknown Caller

    Text meme about social anxiety: "Googles number I don't recognize instead of answering."

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    #37

    Never Related To Something More

    Text meme about social anxiety reveals the impact of childhood labels on adult social skills and personality development.

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    #38

    Haha Relatable, Now Cry 😟😔

    SpongeBob meme about social anxiety in class, expressing awkwardness after speaking up.

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    #39

    *checks Excuse Book*

    Sad cat meme about social anxiety, brushing teeth and being showered, with text on making plans in a good mood.

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    #40

    Always Embarrassing Myself

    Cat meme humorously depicting social anxiety with text on a real cat and a cake cat.

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    #41

    What's It Gonna Be Today Folks

    Social anxiety meme with a choice between staying home triggering depression or going out causing a panic attack.

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    #42

    Everytime

    SpongeBob meme about social anxiety, looking anxious while waiting for the phone to stop ringing.

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    #43

    Thanks Brain, Very Cool

    Meme about social anxiety showing a man with glasses reflecting on an awkward moment.

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    #44

    My Life In One Picture

    Social anxiety meme expressing worry about being weird whether talking or silent.

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    #45

    Plus Thinking About How You Sounded Afterwards

    Meme about social anxiety showing men stretching before saying "here" in attendance.

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    #46

    Anybody Else?

    Man in hospital bed with family, highlighting social anxiety in a humorous context.

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    #47

    Can Anyone Else Relate?

    A group of people in conversation, one man with social anxiety stands smiling at the edge, hesitant to join in.

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    #48

    It’s A Vicious Cycle

    SpongeBob meme illustrating social anxiety and depression from interactions or lack thereof.

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    #49

    Why Are You Like This

    Meme about social anxiety with text on dialogue choices and a concerned cartoon bear with water drops.

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    #50

    Anyone Else?

    Cartoon character looking anxious with text about making plans while happy but later regretting it; social anxiety meme.

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    #51

    True

    True

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    #52

    Am So Lonely!

    Am So Lonely!

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    #53

    I Felt This In My Soul

    I Felt This In My Soul

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    #54

    Anyone Else?

    Anyone Else?

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    #55

    🙄

    🙄

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    #56

    Found This Gem On Instagram

    Found This Gem On Instagram

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    #57

    Me Attending Online Classes

    Me Attending Online Classes

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    #58

    Tbh

    Tbh

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    #59

    Social Anxiety - The Beginning

    Social Anxiety - The Beginning

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    #60

    College Parties

    College Parties

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    #61

    I’ve Been There

    I’ve Been There

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    #62

    Ah

    Ah

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    #63

    Nice

    Nice

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    #64

    We Can’t Be Like This

    We Can’t Be Like This

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    #65

    This One Hit Me Hard

    This One Hit Me Hard

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    #66

    Like Pls Talk To Me, But Please Don’t Talk To Me

    Like Pls Talk To Me, But Please Don’t Talk To Me

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    #67

    Saw This On R/Memes And Felt It Belonged Here

    Saw This On R/Memes And Felt It Belonged Here

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    #68

    I Should've Stayed Home

    I Should've Stayed Home

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    #69

    Social_skills.exe Has Stopped Working

    Social_skills.exe Has Stopped Working

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    #70

    Make That 6 Weeks

    Make That 6 Weeks

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    #71

    Accurate

    Accurate

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    #72

    I Didn't Make The Rules

    I Didn't Make The Rules

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    #73

    You Are Not Supposed To Call!

    You Are Not Supposed To Call!

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    #74

    The Wonderful Feeling Of An Empty Parking Lot To Eat Your Lunch In Peace. No Coworkers, No Small Talk

    The Wonderful Feeling Of An Empty Parking Lot To Eat Your Lunch In Peace. No Coworkers, No Small Talk

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    #75

    Sadly True

    Sadly True

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    #76

    Yeah

    Yeah

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    #77

    I'm Mostly Txt, But

    I'm Mostly Txt, But

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    #78

    That Be Me

    That Be Me

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    #79

    I Don’t Know If This Has Been Posted Here Before But I Laughed

    I Don’t Know If This Has Been Posted Here Before But I Laughed

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    #80

    Ah Yes Self Sabotage

    Ah Yes Self Sabotage

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    #81

    Heck

    Heck

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    #82

    Can We Text Instead

    Can We Text Instead

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    #83

    Me Always

    Me Always

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    #84

    :/

    :/

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    #85

    That's Why I Hate My Photos

    That's Why I Hate My Photos

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    #86

    Why I’m About To Drop Out Of School

    Why I’m About To Drop Out Of School

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    #87

    Every Night

    Every Night

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    #88

    And Then They Never Text Back

    And Then They Never Text Back

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    #89

    It’s Me Every Freakin Day Lmao 🤣

    It’s Me Every Freakin Day Lmao 🤣

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    #90

    Me Irl Whenever I See Anyone

    Me Irl Whenever I See Anyone

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    #91

    Too Relatable

    Too Relatable

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    #92

    So True

    So True

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    #93

    Me

    Me

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    #94

    True

    True

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    #95

    Hope It Works

    Hope It Works

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    #96

    That Shit Hurted 🤧

    That Shit Hurted 🤧

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    #97

    Yes

    Yes

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    I Like When Ppl Cant See My Face

    I Like When Ppl Cant See My Face

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    #99

    Thanks

    Thanks

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    #100

    Should’ve Just Stayed Home

    Should’ve Just Stayed Home

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    #101

    Fair

    Fair

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    #102

    Haha Help Haha. Please

    Haha Help Haha. Please

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    #103

    Oof

    Oof

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    #104

    All The Time

    All The Time

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    #105

    Relatable

    Relatable

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    #106

    :-(

    :-(

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    #107

    I’ve Never Related To Anything More

    I’ve Never Related To Anything More

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    #108

    Me Coming Home After Socializing, Thinking About How Awkward And Cringy I Was

    Me Coming Home After Socializing, Thinking About How Awkward And Cringy I Was

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    #109

    I Feel That

    I Feel That

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    #110

    Anyone Can Relate?

    Anyone Can Relate?

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    #111

    😰😰😰

    😰😰😰

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    #112

    Every Time

    Every Time

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    #113

    Every Time

    Every Time

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    #114

    Something

    Something

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    #115

    Can’t I Just Take A Magic Healing Pill

    Can’t I Just Take A Magic Healing Pill

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    #116

    Yes

    Yes

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    #117

    I Relate To This On A Spiritual Level

    I Relate To This On A Spiritual Level

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    #118

    When Your Mere Existence Is Embarrassing

    When Your Mere Existence Is Embarrassing

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    #119

    I Live In A Dorm There's Literally 20 Rooms In A Single Straight Hallway

    I Live In A Dorm There's Literally 20 Rooms In A Single Straight Hallway

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    #120

    Yes

    Yes

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    #121

    Literally

    Literally

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    #122

    Me Today

    Me Today

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    #123

    Hmmmmmmmmm

    Hmmmmmmmmm

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    #124

    This Hits Real Close To Home

    This Hits Real Close To Home

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    #125

    I’d Rather Stay Home

    I’d Rather Stay Home

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    #126

    Truth

    Truth

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    #127

    Meetings, Am I Right?

    Meetings, Am I Right?

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    #128

    Every Darn Time

    Every Darn Time

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    #129

    Why Am I Like This

    Why Am I Like This

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    #130

    Thats Me

    Thats Me

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    #131

    Yup

    Yup

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    #132

    I Wouldn’t Want To Bother Anyone

    I Wouldn’t Want To Bother Anyone

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    #133

    It This True For Anyone?

    It This True For Anyone?

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