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I’m all for giving others the benefit of the doubt—being understanding, forgiving the occasional misstep, and letting things slide when possible. After all, none of us are perfect, and if I can show a little kindness in this cruel world, I’ll gladly try.
That said, there’s a definite limit to how far any judgment-free zone can stretch.
These Redditors know exactly what I mean. Recently, they shared the things people do that instantly make them unattractive, and honestly, they’ve made some pretty solid points. Scroll down to see their takes, and feel free to share your thoughts in the comments!
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#1
Be unkind to animals, the less fortunate, or customer service workers. It’s a literal deal breaker for me.
ETA: Pretentious snobs that attempt to hijack completely unrelated posts to push their beliefs or politics under the false pretense of “humor”.
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#10
Have zero interest in other people, but expect everyone to be fascinated by the minutia of their lives.
#11
The least attractive thing someone can do is treat others with disrespect or disregard their feelings. No matter how charming someone may seem, when they show a lack of empathy, it completely diminishes their appeal.
#14
Be rude, or act entitled.
Went on a date. She went on a her phone in the cinema and started scrolling Insta for half the film. She was actually a very good looking woman but that was... *ugh*.
#15
A one upper. Or someone who always has to make things about them selves. I have this thing where I can instantly identify them and subsequently not be able to respect them or their opinion right away.
#23
For me, it's when someone constantly interrupts in conversations. It feels disrespectful and dismissive.
#32
Poor hygiene. Disrespecting boundaries. Chaotic, unruly energy. Seeking someone’s constant attention.
#34
Be the type that's quick to get angry. Not frustrated, I mean the type that can go from 0-80 in a split second over somebody telling you your haircuts s**t for example.
#35
LIE. Why the f**k is LIE not one of the top replies? And don't you f*****g lie to me about this s**t either.
#37
Constantly talk about themselves. Have zero manners. Have poor hygiene. Have a miserable personality. Or they have no consideration for others & zero social awareness.
#44
When people act like someone they’re not just to fit in or impress others, it feels super inauthentic. I just want realness, you know? It’s like, just be yourself. Trying too hard to be liked actually pushes people away.
#50
The least attractive thing someone can do is confidently mispronounce "charcuterie" as "shark coochie" and then double down, insisting, "That's how the French say it!".
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Kelly Scott 1 year ago
Why isn't misogyny here? There is no bigger turnoff than a man or a woman who thinks another man or woman needs to be inside the traditional little box society has made for them. Please, keep those old, stupid platitudes and the people who bleat them as far away from me as possible.
Sergio Bicerra 1 year ago
Something I hate but can't remember the term is when people think they're alone in the world, like running around the corner of a building not thinking someone else could be walking right there and just railroad them. Or crossing the street without looking both sides.
Liz The Biz 1 year ago
People who invalidate other people's feelings and dismiss, belittle and trivialise their worries and problems. What might seem worthless and unimportant to you could be of great concern for somebody else.
Kelly Scott 1 year ago
Why isn't misogyny here? There is no bigger turnoff than a man or a woman who thinks another man or woman needs to be inside the traditional little box society has made for them. Please, keep those old, stupid platitudes and the people who bleat them as far away from me as possible.
Sergio Bicerra 1 year ago
Something I hate but can't remember the term is when people think they're alone in the world, like running around the corner of a building not thinking someone else could be walking right there and just railroad them. Or crossing the street without looking both sides.
Liz The Biz 1 year ago
People who invalidate other people's feelings and dismiss, belittle and trivialise their worries and problems. What might seem worthless and unimportant to you could be of great concern for somebody else.
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